I don't mean to be rude but Wether you're pregnant or not that is why this app is here for others to…

👏👏 You read my mind! Lol

lol it just agrevates me how some women like to judge others just because there TTC and have questions, I personally have been in some of these women's shoes and it's hard to even think you might not be able to have children...

There are people who say things like that?! Awful. I support any woman who wants to be a mama. And those who struggle to get pregnant need that support!

unfortunately yes I ran into a post today on here about how if your not pregnant you shouldn't be on here, and that all they needed to do was get off birth control and start trying... it really did piss me off because at some point I was one of these ladies searching for answers on how or why I couldn't get pregnant, obviously we can go to a doctor but it never hurts to hear someone else's experience with infertility....

Oh wow. That wasn't posted long ago. It's like four posts below yours on my feed. Why do people think they can say such things.?!? 🙊😠

I think y'all should find who her post was directed to tho. I completely agree if someone is just being rude or judgmental for no reason or belittling someone's battle with infertility. but the woman the post was directed towards has an IUD in place, and is actively trying to get pregnant/thinks she is pregnant while simultaneously refusing to see a Dr to get a blood test, or have the IUD removed. She is stating that she is pregnant because she heard the heartbeat on a free app on her phone, and is saying she is having all of the symptoms a pregnant woman at roughly 18+ weeks would be having when by her own estimate she would be 4 weeks at the latest. She has been advised many time to seek medical help because if she becomes pregnant on the IUD it can be harmful for both her and the baby and she refuses to take that advice. instead, she's made numerous accounts to continue asking a bombarding amount of useless questions when she has been properly informed many times and refuses to acknowledge it. So yes, this is a support app and we should all be positive and uplifting of each mothers journey to and through motherhood. But sometimes it's a little harder than others.

She even asked specifically if she got the IUD removed that day and had sex with her boyfriend that week if she would get pregnant. She has been advised that some women take longer to get pregnant and that she should definitely become aware of her ovulation and period cycles to determine when best to try to conceive and again she ignores that advice. it's almost insulting to the women who take the time to chart, learn, and educate themselves on pregnancy and struggle to conceive.

@babyreeves, yeah but she could've just pmd her or blocked her.. There are a lot of super sensitive women on here that are really TTC and the post can come off as extremely hurtful not knowing about this specific person. I didn't know there was a specific person..

I understand. I've tried to personally talk to the girl in question and it's so incredibly frustrating. I'm sure she just meant to vent about her irritation with the situation, but I can see if you weren't aware of the previous attempts to make reason with this woman how it could seem like an insensitive remark to make about trying to conceive.

For example, just one of the things she has posted that are incredibly frustrating.