Friends and family that think their coming to the hospital when I'm in labor, or tell me to call…

Friends and family that think their coming to the hospital when I'm in labor, or tell me to call them when I go so they can go. Are crazy!!! Like I want to be smothered when I'm doing work! So annoying I get you want to see/ hold my precious baby, but that is my time and first on my list will be my own little family. My daughter and son, my mother ect. I don't know why, but it annoys the shit out of me.