I just wanna say this & don't want anyone to be offended by it, but it's something that drives me…
I just wanna say this & don't want anyone to be offended by it, but it's something that drives me crazy!!!!! 😑
When ever I have wanted another baby, I'd have my moment where I'd say I want a specific gender, we all do I am sure! But the ones who get pregnant just because that want only that specific gender & give no thought to what if it's the opposite gender, are stupid stupid stupid! When making a baby! Make a baby! Don't make a specific gender in your head! There's a 50/50 chance! It blows my mind how some women act! Then When I say! I'm having another boy, I hate when people react by saying "oh no!" Or "are you kidding me" no I am not! My main reason for becoming pregnant is beacause we wanted a baby, we prayed for a happy healthy baby! Boy or girl we love it! 💕
Ashley·
В ожидании первенца
Yes! It shouldn't matter! Just be grateful for happiness and health!
Quiss·
Same reaction I got when I said I was having another girl all I asked for was a healthy baby which I have and I'm blessed for that
Annamarie·
👍👍👍👍👍 I'm on my 7th girl so I get" I bet you wanted a boy, or I bet Joe is upset. " NO HE'S NOT HE'S HAVING A GREATLY GIRL SO STH UP! ❤@soontobemomof4
Mimi·
THANK YOU!!!
missing145user·
Agreed, I think that "want" for a certain gender is natural. But it kind of bothers me when I see people say "oh I finally got my....." or "now my family is complete we have our....." like what if it would have been the other gender? I've literally seen people throw a fit at gender reveal parties because they didn't get what they "wanted." Gender disappointment can be a natural feeling, but cussing and throwing a fit over it is kind of sad. Either gender should be okay.
missing300user·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@Their.bomb.ass.mom, exactly! I know people who treat the child differently after its born because it isn't what they wanted! It's just terrible to me when it goes that far!
Kayla Ward·
Мама сына (1 год)
i went through that and i wouldn't say its stupid but just expectation wasnt met. when I got pregnant it was very unexpected but me and my boyfriend wanted a girl. I was so positive and stuck on it being a girl I never thought about it being a boy I didn't want to so I put it out of my mind. when I went for my 20 week check up to find out the gender and they told Me it was a boy I was devastated. I wasn't as happy anymore I felt detatched from my pregnancy because I wanted a girl so bad but eventually I embraced what I had. I wanted a girl but God blessed me with a boy that's what I was supposed to have. I learned that you shouldn't have high hopes on a specific gender because you never know what you get but either way it's a blessing.
Kayla Ward·
Мама сына (1 год)
oh ok my bad Lol but no I would never. my son is an amazing little boy he lights up my life every day i can't Imagine treating him any different because I originally wanted a different gender life just doesn't work that way. it's sad when moms treat their kids bad every woman doesn't deserve children. it's ridiculous
Joie·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (13 нед.)
Samesies @aidensmommy110