ladies i need help it not pregancy related bit idk wat to do? me and my sis are a months apart with our kids my is almost a month n she is due any day now. so my mom having her a baby shower on saturday i want to go but than again i dont. she didnt cames to mine because she went to a concerte i let it go n still get along but now my mother in law knows about n tells me not to go to do the same thing and than she like o and the baby to small to go out and be around with alot of people. which idc wat she says bt i dnt want her to get into my husband head n tell the same things n him change his mind but letting me go. and if i do end up going i know my mother in law will than have an attitude with me to make it worst i feel so comfortable due to we live with them.. What will you do ???