Am I selfish to be jealous and a little annoyed that my cousin who was due after me is halfway to…
Am I selfish to be jealous and a little annoyed that my cousin who was due after me is halfway to labor and I haven't had any signs of it coming? I'm almost 38 weeks with no progress while she's half way dilated already as of last week 😒it makes me feel so crappy that my son still isn't here. She's going to get all the family's attention and I won't. Maybe it's just my pregnancy hormones getting to me. I just want my baby. She has an easy life. And I'm suffering depression and all I want is to have my baby. 😥
JaNelle 👑💕·
Мама дочки-младенца
sweetie try not to focus on what she had going on, it won't help your depression. I felt the same exact way tho, my cousin & I were due 10 days apart, of course her daughter came first & mine 6 days after. but i didn't let it get me down & my family definitely showed the same amount of attention to both, but more so my baby girl because it's my first & her second. but don't let it get you down tho, focus on your bundle of joy❤️
Cassandra·
Unfortunately my grandmother is really sick, so I know she will get to see her baby first. And my family is kind of like that. She will get the attention especially because she lives closer to them. I've tried everything to kick start labor. I know stress isn't good. But I just, I need my baby. This is both our first. Except hers was planned and she has a boyfriend and I'm alone. So I get looked down on :/ it's so hard to be happy. I have a miserable pregnancy. I just want my baby boy here. I'm sure my depression would subside a little. @maddiesmommy22
JaNelle 👑💕·
Мама дочки-младенца
my pregnancy was definitely looked down on also so I understand how you feel. it's not easy going through it alone, but having your son will help a lot. it gives you a reason to wake up & smile in the morning. it'll get better tho, feel free to message me at any time if you just need someone to talk to ok?
Cassandra·
Thank you. I appreciate it. @maddiesmommy22