can I get some advise on what to do because I'm running out of options my fiance and I made a…
can I get some advise on what to do because I'm running out of options my fiance and I made a promise no weed or cigarettes at all because we would like a child after this baby and the doctor told us that we need to start being healthy now so the next baby would be healthy when we are ready to to have another one but he broke his promise when he started back with the cigarettes I learned to get over that because it was hard for me to quit but now I found out he has been smoking weed behind my back and lying about where he is going and what he is doing he even is disrespecting me in front of his friends IDK what to think or do
Summer·
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He really should respect you weather his friends are around or not. Him not respecting you now could lead to worse inncodents down the road (not necessarily him hitting you but not a good environment for you baby to be around) as for the smoking I would explain to him why it hurts you and if not give him ultamatiums if he is serious about something he should prove it to you.
phelicia allen·
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he just told me that he only smoke to be able to sleep but it's like he still doesn't understand that it still kills sperm counts and he expects me to have his son he needs to change his habits
phelicia allen·
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@rainbowbaby2015,
Summer·
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Not only that it kills his sperm but he made a commitment and a promise to you that he would drop those two things. My boyfriend and I used to smoke and when I got pregnant we quit together and my boyfriend got a vape cause I know how hard it is to quit. As for smoking weed I let my boyfriend smoke 2 times because it was the only way he coped with loosing his dad but he ended up quitting all together because he wants a job and wants to pass a piss test. Maybe try writing a letter to him explaining everything and how you feel and ask him to out it in his wallet so any time he gets the urge to smoke he can pull it out and realize his family is more important then a smoke session . I know how hard it can be I felt with it with my boyfriend if you ever need to talk you can definitely message me.
Kayleigh·
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I agree he should respect you when it comes to stuff like that but I've never heard that weed makes you lose sperm my fiancé smokes because he got hurt in a car accident but I've told him I don't like the smell or it being around me at the moment and he doesn't do it around me but he also respects what I have to say
phelicia allen·
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According to a recent studypublished in the American Journal of Epidemiology, smoking pot more than once a week can lower sperm count by a third
phelicia allen·
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plus my doctor even talked to us about it but I'll try writing him a letter and see how that goes but thanks you guys for speaking with me it's good to have someone to talk to @kay880 @rainbowbaby2015
Kayleigh·
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I'm here if you need anything and I never heard that but huh
Heavenly·
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I come from a family of drug lords as they call them and my husband who is 9yrs older than me smoked weed at least 12hours everyday as i did at aleast 14-18 hours a day...i had no problem getting pregnant...we both stopped and its not hard to pass a piss teat and be high while doing so.. but a promise is a promise so id talk to him about it and i smoked and converted to vaping,not everyone can stick with a vape tho they are so much better than cigg.s I have a few people I know who just stick with cigg.s tho I could never go back. try your best to talk it out....alot if men never just quit..my husband stopped cigg.s but vapes and dips some as well.