I need to stop putting off seeing the doctor I get on and off sharp chest pains but not every day or…

I need to stop putting off seeing the doctor I get on and off sharp chest pains but not every day or week or month it feels as if it's in between my shoulder blades ,but I ignore it because it happens when I'm anxious or stressed but I need to take it serious I have kids and need my health to be a1 but I hate doctors won't see you for a month the only doctor I could have gotten last time was a guy and I'm not comfortable with that