My biggest fear is letting my guard down completely with my boyfriend and then finding out hes been sneaking around…

I wouldn't know what to do either girl. I don't understand why guys do that stuff to the girl that is loyal to them and all of that. It's crazy. If you ever need anyone to talk to, you can always talk to me. @kristinamarie_1996

Leave that shit head! My god I'd beat that fucker senseless with that damn laptop

I'm crushed. numb. don't really know what to do. Not coping very well. I was using his laptop (wasn't even trying to snoop) and came across a bunch of emails and Facebook messages with girls. he told many girls he was single and wanted to hook up, told some of them he was in a relationship but was unhappy and needed sex. Sent them nudes. received nudes. Actually met up with them. had some over to our house, in our bed while I wasn't home. its crazy. I feel like I don't know him at all. I have known him for several years and we have been together for 3. we have a baby together, our wedding all planned for next summer, planning our second child and now I find all this. I haven't left him yet. I don't know what to do.

Omg.. That is like the worst thing you could ever find out. I'm sorry :( that's like my worst fear. I don't even know how I would cope with it.. How did you find out about all of that? @kristinamarie_1996

I have been with my Hubby for almost 3 years. We have a beautiful baby together. We have always had the most amazing relationship. and just recently I found out he has cheated many times, lied to me about a ton of stuff and done many things behind my back. I never had any suspicion that he was like that. He was never that kind of person. He was perfect. I'm crushed. I can't trust him. I can't ever trust anyone ever again. Just keep your guard up. I promise you will be happy you did.