I hate that to some people it comes off as rude when I say I only want to give birth to 1 child. I understand some…

it's OK I'm 21 have 1 4.5 yr old step son. I have 1 4 yr old and a 3 month old... it's alot to do at this age

It's your body and you're still young so you have plenty of time to have another one if you decide to! Don't let the words of others get to you girl!

I was just so annoyed. this lady flat out said I was wasting what God gave me the ability to do.. but let me have multiple children and it's a problem! @mira423

it is. we're already struggling with my step son because he doesn't understand what's going on at all. even though he's only 2 he isn't liking the idea of another baby and my nephew just now became okay with it! @raerae95

@aniyahsmommy_0623, wow that would've pissed me off. You're not wasting what God gave you, you're having a child and also being a mother to 2other kids. You're a blessing, that lady needs to have a seat and worry about her own ovaries!

@aniyahsmommy_0623, I know that. my ss's mom had another baby and put into his head that the baby was more important than he was so when I came up pregnant we where scared to tell the kids until after we had changed his view on babies because he at that point hated them. you just have to let him be involved with stuff like let him carry baby clothes in the store or help make clothing decisions. it makes a huge difference when they are involved. 2yr olds especially

I'm really gonna start telling people to worry about their own ovaries lol @mira423

@aniyahsmommy_0623, lol I bet they won't say another word to you about yours if u do!