
Me & My SO went to our first appointment at the Birth Center. it was BitterSweet... and here's why...
I was told that because my BMI was over 35 that I am not allowed per the SC DHEC regulations to give birth in the Birthing Center... which means no water birth for me & my first baby, it took everything in me not to cry in front of her, I've known for over 10yrs that this is what I wanted and how I wanted to do it, and this is the only place in the area to do it :( super sad face!!!
but on a lighter note... WE GOT TO SEE BABY FOR THE FIRST TIME YESTERDAY! I'm 14weeks, so we waited a long time (9weeks) to finally be able to see our Baby (whom we are so sure is a girl); it was so magical, I understand now why women cry, I teared up but told myself not to cry... as u can see Ima cry baby lol. and the baby was even moving for us too, it was the most perfect moment in my life... so far! <3
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So me and hubby decided on londyn valentina for baby girl.. Mind you we havent told family yet, so my cousin goes oh im having a girl and we are namimg her londin valentina... I was so upset angry and mad i was hooked on that name for baby girl 😭😭😭😭 so now we cant use it so we just decided to name baby girl violet. Dont get me wrong i love the name violet also.. But i was so stuck with valentina... Sorry ladies had to vent anyways baby girl name will be violet now 💜💜
Ladies that are 30-35 & are having their 1st baby, message me!!
I'm curious to see how many FTM's are in my age group! I'm 30, will be 31 next month. This is my first pregnancy and hopefully first baby ?? We want at least 2 children but don't want to be too much older before we try again, hoping for another successful pregnancy w/in 1-2 years after the birth of our baby girl!!
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name