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Erin
Erin
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (40 нед.)

My mom is really pressuring me and bribing me with a $400 purse--to get my tubes tied after my c-section, my husband is…

My mom is really pressuring me and bribing me with a $400 purse--to get my tubes tied after my c-section, my husband is against it. This is only my second child, I don't know how I feel. I lost 2 in the past one at 10 weeks, one at 22 weeks.

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misserinc

Erin

Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (40 нед.)

@jessmeyer716, yeah, you just never know what the future holds!

jessmeyer716

Jessica

Мама сына (8 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

I wouldn't do it. I told my hubby I dont want any more kids after this one (I already have an 8 yr old) because of how difficult my pregnancy was this time around. But I'm still not 100% sure I want to tie my tubes so I'm not going to. Just get on a birth control after baby is born, its not a permanent decision :)

amberino

Amber

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (23 нед.)

Aww I'm sorry to hear that

misserinc

Erin

Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (40 нед.)

@amberino, the baby had Potters Syndrome, rare but very painful for the baby and easily detected with ultrasound around 16 weeks

amberino

Amber

Мама сына-младенца, беременна (23 нед.)

I'm not trying to be rude how did you lose the one at 22 weeks ? And I don't think you should get them tide

tabbytabz

Tabatha

Мама троих детей

This is my 2nd and will be my last I am having my tubes tied during my csection. If i was younger i might not choose the same road but being 37 years old now I feel it is the right time.

lae1988

leslee

Мама четверых детей, беременна

That's what I am worried about I kinda feel like if I tie my tubes then I will end up wanting another baby and won't be able to but I also would wait about 5 or so years to have another one and that's gonna put me at risk for things because in 5 years I will be 33 and you know things start getting complicated the older you get @misserinc

mommatata131416

Tawni

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

This will be our 3rd. I have a 2 year old daughter and a 1 year old son.

missing319user

missing319user

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (33 нед.)

If it doesn't feel right for you don't do it. Don't let someone try and decided for you or pressure you. It's a permanent thing and even if you tried and reverse it isn't 100% that you could have another. It takes a lot of thought. After this child me and my husband both agreed to get my tubes tied we 100% do not want anymore. He's the only person (besides myself) who has a say in any of this.

misserinc

Erin

Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (40 нед.)

@mommatata131416, how many do you have?

misserinc

Erin

Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (40 нед.)

Yeah I feel the same way, but I kinda wonder would I want a 3rd some day, and then regret getting my tubes tied! @lae1988

mommatata131416

Tawni

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

My husband and I both agreed to me getting my tubes tied after this kid. This was our surprise baby, we were suppose to be done after having my son. Whoops!

lae1988

leslee

Мама четверых детей, беременна

I haven't decided if I'm tying mine yet or not I want to but my fiancé doesn't want me to but really my fiancé should be happy with what choice I make this is for my health I'm 28 and I have 3 kids one on the way and I lost one at 17 weeks last year so I don't know what I won't to do if I tie my tubes it may ruin my relationship because he wants more kids but I don't want to go through anymore pregnancies I'm conflicted lol

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

I am so stressed right now!!!

I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.