My mom is really pressuring me and bribing me with a $400 purse--to get my tubes tied after my c-section, my husband is against it. This is only my second child, I don't know how I feel. I lost 2 in the past one at 10 weeks, one at 22 weeks.
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I wouldn't do it. I told my hubby I dont want any more kids after this one (I already have an 8 yr old) because of how difficult my pregnancy was this time around. But I'm still not 100% sure I want to tie my tubes so I'm not going to. Just get on a birth control after baby is born, its not a permanent decision :)
@amberino, the baby had Potters Syndrome, rare but very painful for the baby and easily detected with ultrasound around 16 weeks
I'm not trying to be rude how did you lose the one at 22 weeks ? And I don't think you should get them tide
This is my 2nd and will be my last I am having my tubes tied during my csection. If i was younger i might not choose the same road but being 37 years old now I feel it is the right time.
That's what I am worried about I kinda feel like if I tie my tubes then I will end up wanting another baby and won't be able to but I also would wait about 5 or so years to have another one and that's gonna put me at risk for things because in 5 years I will be 33 and you know things start getting complicated the older you get @misserinc
This will be our 3rd. I have a 2 year old daughter and a 1 year old son.
If it doesn't feel right for you don't do it. Don't let someone try and decided for you or pressure you. It's a permanent thing and even if you tried and reverse it isn't 100% that you could have another. It takes a lot of thought. After this child me and my husband both agreed to get my tubes tied we 100% do not want anymore. He's the only person (besides myself) who has a say in any of this.
@mommatata131416, how many do you have?
Yeah I feel the same way, but I kinda wonder would I want a 3rd some day, and then regret getting my tubes tied! @lae1988
My husband and I both agreed to me getting my tubes tied after this kid. This was our surprise baby, we were suppose to be done after having my son. Whoops!
I haven't decided if I'm tying mine yet or not I want to but my fiancé doesn't want me to but really my fiancé should be happy with what choice I make this is for my health I'm 28 and I have 3 kids one on the way and I lost one at 17 weeks last year so I don't know what I won't to do if I tie my tubes it may ruin my relationship because he wants more kids but I don't want to go through anymore pregnancies I'm conflicted lol
@jessmeyer716, yeah, you just never know what the future holds!