I have a 2 year old with my bf and now expecting another daughter yet he's still making me wait for…

why would you leave? my bf told me I won't get a ring until he finds the perfect one, we have money for a wedding, and its the right time.

I really don't think that's a reason to leave someone. maybe he's not ready yet/scared or doesn't think it's as big of a deal as us women do. maybe try talking about it first and let him know how you feel about it.

@jessicahartze, because he bought the ring October of 2014 . All he says is Ima do it when I'm ready like what man is not ready to make his gf a wife after having not one but two children by him at that .

@kelseys, I talk about it so much that it's embarrassing I feel like I'm begging him and it's taking away from the anxious and happy feeling.

Maybe you talk about it too much... Maybe he's waiting for you not to mention it so it'll actually be a surprise :)

I can see your point.

@lexiiroyal, maybe you're right but i can't help it 😩

@maina93, I'm in the same boat and trust me it's probably because you bring it up. My hubby told me "I don't do it because you keep asking. I want to do it when I want to. Not because you want to. I want to surprise you. Stop asking and it might happen soon". They don't like feeling pressured

@jessicahartze, thank you . Wish he would

@ray42812, I think you're right because he says the exact same thing . Ima try to go without saying it

Why do guys do that... Ugh. My husband told me that if I hadn't told him when it was the right time he would have waited a few more years. I don't get guys sometimes...

Be together for 7 years in May and just got my ring last July. I never ever pressured him or talked about it and he did it on his own time and I couldn't of asked for anything better.

@alyen2, @tiffrae Ima try to be more patient

Try too. Love what you have now because other would love to be in your shoes.

@tiffrae, thank you