I'm having a really tough time... Me and my boyfriend/baby daddy, are having trouble. But today…
I'm having a really tough time... Me and my boyfriend/baby daddy, are having trouble. But today really scared/ worried me!... While taking a shower I left him to tend to our 3 week old baby girl only to find out from my mother that he was very aggressive with her and was yelling at her to be quiet and was basically blowing her off because he was more concerned with his new laptop.... I don't know how to even take this I'm just in shock as to everything my mom said he did.. 😔
Maria·
Мама дочки-младенца
Omg!! I feel horrible for you and the baby. If this really happened it needs to be addressed. Baby is only 3 wks old, it doesn't understand anything.
Heather·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
aww. momma thats hard. sometimes guys get really scared cause they really dont know how to respond to everything. especially guys that tend to be good at things. when they arent feeling like they are handling well they get angry (its pride). all you can do is be very aware of him and the baby. allow him to help at little intervals while you are around and praise him for his effort. it will click, and if it doesnt well then it probably will long after you have decided that it is in you and your babies best interest to walk away. hopefully he is a bigger man than that. just stroke his ego for a while. but always be clear what is unacceptable behavior. but use your jugdgment and what you see personally to correct him and not anyone elses. it sucks. just enjoy your angel. everythjng will be as it should
Emilee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Thanks ladies@marmber @babylove1209 I'm just really taken back. And I've noticed little things here and there how he would act around or with her that I would correct but I honestly thought I was just being over protective of her until today when my mom was seriously flailing about to get my attention after my shower and tell me in private what he did. It's just crazy that to me that he's being like this
Justina·
Мама троих детей
I wouldn't leave him alone with her. It's hard for men when they are that small but he needs to be put in his place or just leave him out of all duties that have anything to do with the baby ..smh !