So glad I'm too young for one in my state 😄😭 still had a pelvic exam, but that was easy
no and they shouldn't have given you one also its not mandatory you have a right over your body. if it hurt that means the doctor os incompetent and you should have told them to stop.
I hate getting them done! Last time I got mine done she told me she got the smallest speculum..she waa telling me some doctors use the same size on every women..and of course we're not all the same so maybe thats why its more painful to some women! But even with the smallest one they used on me I was in pain! 😩