So I get to find out the sex Thursday!!!! I'm so excited!! I will also have anther ultrasound done…

the nsts are crazy! I have them done twice a week and she fails them because she moves too much so then I have to have ultrasounds every week also. spent 3 hours in drs today. good luck though!

thanks. he just recommended I have all the extra stuff because I had a stillborn in 2014 everything has been good so far @shelbil

I had a stillborn dec of 2014. I am diabetic and didnt know and also lost so much weight because of it. they categorized me as a drug user just because I had rapid weigjt loss and a stillbirth. watch your doctor carefully. cps might be called after you give birth because of the stillbirth. my dr gave me heads up. smh ouy of all these stressors cps and my childs safety shouldnt be a question.

I doubt they will do that to me. they know what ended the pregnancy at 23 weeks. it was nothing I did, just the unfortunate happened. plus if they think I'm on drugs they will drug test me. here in Michigan they drug test you anyway at your first appt. @shelbil

they can't just categorize you as a drug user unless they detect drugs in your system. @shelbil

they tested me and I smoked pot before I got pregnant I haven't tested positive since. but they are still putting it on my records. my stillbirth was never determined what happened. my ob thought i was 8 weeks said to take otc pain meds and when i gave birth at home i called them with what just happened they said they didn't know what i was talking about. she was probably between 18-21 weeks . I have doctors here now looking into malpractice

ohb okay hope you get answers