Alright so I found emails on Hubbys computer between him and a TON of girls he was trying to cheat…
Alright so I found emails on Hubbys computer between him and a TON of girls he was trying to cheat on me with a couple years ago. It was a couple months after we got engaged. He says I have no right to be mad because it was so long ago. But we were still engaged and very happy (or so I thought) and i had no idea he was like that until now. We had both been cheated on and hurt so i never thought he would do that. Am I over reacting?
missing145user·
I don't think that's overreacting. I'm sure if the tables were turned, he'd be pissed off. Cheating is cheating, no matter how long ago it was.
Marlaena Lowe·
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No I personally think you still have a right to be upset.. Just because it happened so long ago doesn't mean it just didn't happen. There's not a expiration date on when to get upset. You just found it, he shouldn't of done it, and him saying you don't have a right to get upset is his excuse for what he did. You were just engaged and if that happened to me, I'd feel completely horrible. You trusted him then and he broke that and you didn't even know.. That just meant any girl he talked to that lived around you looked at you with him after that like you were clueless and she was better than you. That's how a female is when she's the side chick. She thinks she's better than the main girl. I'd still be royally pissed and hurt.
Kristina·
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I am unbelievably hurt. I don't know what to do. I can't even look at him. our daughter is my everything and I don't want to break up her family but I can never trust him again. @rockysmommy @their.bomb.ass.mom
Kirsten·
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if it matters what another guy says.. I asked my boyfriend if that was a little overreacting and he said no! He still tried to cheat. whether yesterday or two years ago. I'm sorry :(
allysha Hollander·
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I hate when guys say things like that. You know damn well if you did that to him he would still be mad at you, but since he's the one at fault of course he thinks you're overreacting
Marlaena Lowe·
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If you still love him but don't trust him make that known to him. He needs to realize how much he's hurt you and the relationship and he needs to stop making excuses.
Marlaena Lowe·
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I had an ex who cheated on me and I found out a year later and didn't hold it against him because it was only a kiss even though it hurt me that I didn't know for so long and I actually talked to the girl who he did it with and she looked at me like I was an oblivious idiot.. Yet any time a guy talked to me I was a horrible person that was probably cheating on him so he liked to say. But I never cheated on him.. I just left him for my current boyfriend. Looking back I had every chance to cheat on him with my boyfriend I have now but I didn't.. Though sometimes I want too. The pain never goes away and it makes it worse when they come up with excuses to make it okay and it doesn't.