well i was just informed by "family friends" that they will have me walking this baby out and doing…
well i was just informed by "family friends" that they will have me walking this baby out and doing whatever it takes to get her out of me at 37 weeks..... Like no, leave me alone she will come when she wants too😩😳 I told them she is mine, idk why they think they get visitation rights her daddy and I agree they're being rude.
💙Christine💙·
I look at it as the baby comes when it wants too, I'm not even going to let them induce me unless necessary.
missing268user·
same here I mean unless I'm 43,44 weeks pregnant then she is just being stubborn lol. But I don't understand why they would think that's okay :( @laykstonsmommy
@mommychina_·
regardless what you do that baby will come when shes ready . and there isn't any need to force her out at 37 weeks . don't listen to that
💙Christine💙·
I agree they have no right it's your baby, even if there family if you don't want to rush it then don't and honestly sometimes the baby isn't even completely developed at 37 weeks.
missing268user·
@mommychina_ I wasn't going to, I mean I may walk to help with dialation but only if my doctor tells me too. I just wish they would stop because it makes me uncomfortable I'd be fine if she went to 42 weeks I may be miserable but if she's healthy that's all I care about. These people are being selfish😢
@mommychina_·
yeah most mom think 37 weeks is full term which if you go into labor they won't stop it cause baby is pretty self sufficient at 37 weeks but 39 weeks is where you would much rather your baby to be .
missing268user·
@laykstonsmommy exactly girl, one of the friends brought up castor oil and I about lost my entire self on her for even thinking that was an option like do that to yourself not my child that I carried for 9/10 months😩
missing268user·
@mommychina_ moat definitely😊 ill let them know that, maybe thatll make them quit
💙Christine💙·
Sorry I just seen this lol but I agree I'll let my baby stay as long as it won't as long as nothing is wrong @hermommy
Melinda ·
I don't think you can inless induced or c-section. But don't listing to them your right they are rude. It's your baby not theirs. Let her stay. I wish I could have made it to 40weeks. Mine was at 37wks 2days & had so many health issues. Don't listen not worth her Bing sick or you being worried & stressed. When's she's ready she will come.
missing268user·
@mel0011 there is all kind of things you can't do to force the baby out that isn't medically but I'd like to see them try. My plan was never to listen to them because she's mine. IIf she qasnts to come at 38 weeks on her own that's fine but they won't touch me. @mel0011
Melinda ·
That's good. I didn't know that there was. Ok. :)
missing268user·
@mel0011 castor oil is the biggest one, which to me is just crazy because it can seriously hurt baby:(
missing268user·
@mel0011 yeah they work the natural ones your body has to be ready just struggling to dialate and it will Help. But castor oil..... will definitely get baby out and not a in a way. look at this, my friends cousin did this to her daughter. #prayersForcamiyha
Melinda ·
O wow didn't realize that stuff actually worked. My cousin got lucky she tried that. That's so sad
missing268user·
@mel0011 most definitely, alot of women will drink castor oil and if they drink enough it's highly dangerous for baby. None of that is worth it to me, only inducing anyone will be doing to me is pitocin if it's medically necessary
Melinda ·
I agree. It's not worth your little one being sick just to get them out faster. I was induced but it was for medical reasons. After 3 months of bed rest dr said it was time. Only way I would recommend too