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i really have to stop complaining i see ladies that are 40weeks & some days and don't complain as much as i do and im…

i really have to stop complaining i see ladies that are 40weeks & some days and don't complain as much as i do and im only 39weeks & 4 days lol its just i want my baby out already 😔

I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean…

I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean 2 rooms and take care of her kids and doesn't understand why her mother in law bitches about why it's not done everyday. Uhm okay. Let me tell you why. You don't anything. Your husband works all day while you sit at home and complain about working and cleaning TWO ROOMS and yet you want a HOUSE. As a stay at home mom and pregnant, supposed to be "taking it easy" I clean a room every day, with kids hanging off my legs. I make sure that the man that works 12+ hours a day has a hot meal, clean clothes and doesn't have to worry about coming home to a dirty house. Is my house spotless? Hell no. But it's not filthy. I do all the shopping, I cook three meals a day but there are days I say fuck it all. Am I super mom? No. Am I perfect? No. Do I always do what I say I'm going to that day? No but I make it a point to try. Am I expected to do it? No. No one expects super mom but they expect you to try instead of sitting on facebook 24/7 complaining. "I'm just so tired of being expected to be super mom and I'm not. My kids drive me crazy to the point i don't want anymore kids because they're a pain in the ass." That was her comment. Then stop having unprotected sex or try harder to prevent it. I tried giving you advice to make it easier but you'd rather make excuses of why you can't do it. I don't know if I'm wrong here or not but I don't expect my fiancé to work all day, every day for more than a week at a time and then come home and clean. I ask him to take out the trash and occasionally help me fold laundry. But I don't ask much else because he provides EVERYTHING.