Im So Scared Ladies! My Daughter Will Be Born In Less Than 9 Weeks And Life Is Not Right. I Keep…

Whats on your mind how come life isnt right? Ill try to help you and give you some solutions.

whats wrong ?

@emmarosemommy, breathe! The ironic thing is beloved things will never go as we planned. Don't allow your plans to make you overlook God's plans for you. It may seem impossible or overwhelming right now but there its always God's perfect will for our lives. You're not alone in this. Reach out if you need too. I promise it will all be okay.

Don't do that you're seriously goin to regret it after , no matter what a baby is a blessing she's going to be your bestfriend in hard situations like this . Just thinking about it you've come so far along to just give her up when she's. Born you think you're ready to handle that pain and emptiness ? I can't force you to do something but I can give you some advice you can message me if you want hope everything get better

@daniellethomson @lilfree16 @torie_mspruitt @caridad_x. My Bf Already Has A Child Before Me And I Mean He Spends Time With Her But I Really Feel For His Baby Mother Because He Doesn't Help Her Finacially And She Struggles So Hard. i Help Her As Much As I Can Tho. Then I Have A Job But It Pays Nothing. He Doesnt Work We Live With His Mom Im Trying To Save But Its Hars Because Living In Atlanta Everything Is HIGH If i Struggle Or End Up Homeless Okay But I Dont Want Her To Go Through That And I Love Her So Much Already I Just Cant Fail Her You Guys

@emmarosemommy, honey I don't see a problem. There are too many programs available to help you. First off take your rump back home to your family if you can. Take this time to get as much assistance as you can and don't be ashamed to do so. After your daughter is born take your behind to school. Uncle Sam will foot the bill. I don't care how much you love him McDonald's and Burger King are always hiring. If he doesn't care enough to help you need to leave him not your child. Start now to ensure you and your daughter's future. Giving her up isn't the answer but giving him up is.

=( you're not going to fail her! there are plenty of programs to get into. like @torie_mspruitt said.. maybe you can move back in wrh family.. esp and work until the baby comes and find programs for parents that can help with shelter, daycare and food.. its all going to work out!

Dont give up.. try your hardest first. Do whatever you can, fight as much as you can for the baby.

@torie_mspruitt My Family Got Mad When I Got Pregnant. I Havent Talkez To Any Of Them Since I Found Out Not Even My own Mom. Only Family Ive Had Has Been His . I Get Food Stamps And Unemployment But They Constantly Cancel My WIC Appointments

@lilfree16 @daniellethomson Im Trying Its Just So Hard! i Dont Want To Fail Her I Always Hear People Say Ima Be A Good Mom Because Of How I Carry Myself But Its Takes More Than that To Be A Mom

I would try as much as you can up until shes here.. If you do feel you havent done enough, and feel like you cant provide for her, then dont feel asahmed to give her uo to another family. It will hurt. It will feel shitty to give up your child, but you also are giving her a better chance. You never know though. Things might turn around eventually.

@emmarosemommy, this is the time to mend bridges. Regardless of disappointment they love you. Try looking at it from their point of view. I can understand why they were upset with you can too or you wouldn't be contemplating giving up your baby. Trust me they love and miss you and they will help you but you must help yourself as well. Get wisdom babygirl. Don't let hurt rule you. Make amends with your family. Don't argue but apologize and ask for forgiveness. Come up with a gameplan and present it to them and stick to it. As long as they can see you trying they will help you.

@torie_mspruitt I Did Apologize But My Parents Are Very Religious Me Having A Baby At 23 Is Just An Embarrassment To Them. They Changed There Numbers Amd Even Moved.

@daniellethomson Im Just So Scared. But Your Right Maybe Things Will Change Over These Last Few Weeks Im Pregnant