not to sound like an asshole but this whole time i was coming on here hoping that someone would make…

amen momma!!

what happened are you and your baby okay:(

My husband's a corpsman so I just ask him all my questions

oh yes my baby girl is doing great @hermommy but i get so frustrated because ftm really listen to other mommies on here because we are scared and don't know what to do so if they recommend something that can harm a baby and they are just taking a guess on what to do its reckless and im sick of seeing it

@mommy2bee1696 I agree with you completely, I know as a Ftm just like you said we look to them because we haven't been through this yet. I've gotten to where I only ask my OB:( glad your baby girl is doing great I was worried they told oh to take something

@corpsmanswife, thats good that you have him and can take advice from him, but women on here should encourage to go to the hospital or call a doctor if something is wrong not give medical advice

@hermommy, and thats exactly why im so pissed because what if you trusted what they said and the outcome was something awful they wouldn't take responsibility for telling you that its just reckless to do stuff like that because everyone is different and every baby is different ,shit that worked for someone else might not work for you or me

Omg yes I agree most of the posts I post no one helps me at all..Then later on they Wana comment like later when it's already to late and act like I'm wrong and there right.. Like I rather just ask my doctor when I see her tomorow.. But in the beginning when I had the app a lot of girls would give me advice and now no one helps me at all only wants to like posts on food 😞

@maggiegallardo1293, i was asking for advice on here too but stopped because one day my baby just wouldn't move and this girl had told me every hour they are supposed to move 10 times, when my daughter wouldn't i went to L&D and but she was perfectly fine i was told by a DOCTOR that you count 10 in the morning and 10 at night because of how far along i am all my baby is doing is sleeping right now so that's what brought on my rant i got super scared worried and stressed out based on trusting the words of an "experienced" mom

Yes that is true 10 in the morning and 10 at night and omg yes I would be scared too and yes most of these girls on here think there right and they basically tell us where wrong.. Like yesterday I posted that does any ladies get pain on there thighs and is it normal cus I can barely walk and no one wanted to help till later so I googled it and it said some girls get it because the baby is pushing down and getting ready for labor and some girls get it months before labor it called pelvic pressure or pelvic pain and some girl commented that I'm wrong that it not because of getting ready for labor cus she has is months ago..

I saw this and thought it made sense you know

@sexxymama83, as ftm you get insecure about some things and its okay to say what you have been through or experience but medical advice should not be given being a ftm when we hear (well i did this and my baby is fine so you should do it too) is stupid and i see it on here a lot and because they say they are experienced and have done it before we think oh we can trust what they say when we shouldn't, but it is only because we haven't done this before so when they say whatever it causes some relief but it can make shit worse and cause more stress once again it is reckless i will never take any advice from mothers on here again when they flash me a PHD then maybe but i doubt anyone on here has that

And this one but Ima ask my doctor tomroow

@mommy2bee1696,

@maggiegallardo1293, a doctors opinion is always what should be followed if you feel something isn't right go in call your doctor take action because there is always a chance that everything could be okay or that something is wrong

@maggiegallardo1293, never risk it based off another person

@mommy2bee1696 I swear your saying everything most of us believe perfectly! Like you said every person and baby are different thank you for bringing this up girl

@mommy2bee1696 I swear your saying everything most of us believe perfectly! Like you said every person and baby are different thank you for bringing this up girl

Yeah thank girl I'll ask my doctor when I see her tomorrow 😊 thank you @mommy2bee1696

And yes that lady was wrong about the kicks..... Some women are strong headed and think they know everything. I'm on my 4th and still at times feel like a ftm. But if its something I really want to know or need an answer for I don't ask on here I call my doctor instantly 🙂

lol im very irritated @maggiegallardo1293 @hermommy @corpsmanswife im glad that you guys see where im coming from it scares me because anything can happen and i just want everyone to be okay no accidents based off of any false information anything can happen

and im sorry if i offended anyone i guess this status got reported because im an asshole

Lol what why would this post be reported for what your just stating facts girl @mommy2bee1696

@maggiegallardo1293, i have no clue lol

Smh I don't see why anyone would report it either. I understood what you were saying completely but it's goes for both sides🙂

idk but I count 3 times a day when I first wake up in the afternoon and at bed time