questions to ask my Dr at my next appt on the 16th:

questions to ask my Dr at my next appt on the 16th:

- we are going over my birth plan (pretty basic, all natural, delayed cord clamping, immediate skin to skin, free range of motion during labor, no one besides fiance in the room, no visitors for an hour and only our daughter is to meet her brother first, NO PITOCIN no matter what! I'd rather go straight into a c section if needed, no formula, no membrane sweeps, no assisted water breakage... Kaelin was going to be born in her amniotic sac but she had a BM and needed out asap)

- how long will you let me labor for before you think I will need assistance in the laboring process aka a c section bc I'm not down with pitocin, or a bulb in my vagina

- will you be able to assist me if I decide to labor in the shower provided since I won't have a tub readily available

- on a scale from 1 to 10 how mad will you be if I eat ice cream while I'm laboring bc I feel like I might even though you prefer I don't

- will you remember that I really want immediate skin to skin with my son bc I don't want to miss another opportunity like I did before

- can you give me dissolving stitches instead of staples if I need a c section

- do you think you can guesstimate if baby will be too big for my pelvic before I try to push bc I refuse to risk him getting stuck... I'd rather him just be cut out instead of possibly getting harmed in my canal

- can you give me stitches regardless if I tear or not bc I know it's gonna stretch and.. well you know. lol

- can I please have an extra can of dermaplast and double the pads? serious question. that can doesn't last before I'm mobile and I can never find the pads like the hospital has.

am I missing any other questions?