I hate when people tell my husband he's not the father of our baby. I know they're "joking" but it's at my expense. we struggled for over 2 years to conceive, spent thousands of dollars on it & the money was wasted, were in the process of adoption, and finally got pregnant on our own out of no where. it really fucking pisses me off because they don't know about what we've been through and it insinuates that I've cheated on him. it's not funny and the next person that feels the need to say it will get flipped the fuck out on.