I'm so sick of people being petty!!! I posted yesterday that I have had enough of people's bullshit…

I'm so sick of people being petty!!! I posted yesterday that I have had enough of people's bullshit and my old neighbor comments" sorry lol" I told him its not funny and he started his shit and saying that he's not coming to my daughter's birthday party tomorrow and it's nice to see that we're turning our backs on friends and just being petty. My husband was in a bad mood so he messaged him and went off. Well he got mad(he's 30 years old, his daughter is living with her grandma and great grandma, he has no job, and doesn't do anything for himself) but called my husband worthless and a druggy and was being stupid. Said he doesn't take care of our girls and can't hold a job, that we'd be homeless right now if the guy we live with wouldn't have saved us (we're renting the apartment under his place and pay our own bills) and got pissed off when my husband called him out! So he told his older brother (him and his wife live with his mom too) who messages me this afternoon talking shit to me telling me that my husband is a woman beater, a druggy, and a worthless piece of shit and how he's gonna get his hands on him and trying to be a tough guy. But when I showed I clearly wasn't intimidated by his stupidity he got shitty with me and then had his wife message me. I've been with my husband almost 8 years now they've only known him for 4 years. and they're trying to tell me he's on speed and drinks all the time. so I corrected them and told them it's been three years he's been clean cause I kicked him out 2 weeks before our second was born and he was a wreck and I'm in love with him regardless of what happened. Now I'm denying the truth and fighting his battles for him. So I stopped messaging them. I seriously cannot believe how pathetic and childish these so called adults are