Right girls I think I might be having a mental breakdown or just going crazy, me and my partner have…
Right girls I think I might be having a mental breakdown or just going crazy, me and my partner have been together 3 years on and off but have been great this time round, so excited about our twinnies coming but we moved into our first house together a few month ago and everything is great.. Except I have been took off work sick because of my really bad abdominal pains so I just sit in the house all day by my self, then when he comes in most nights he goes out with his friends.. At first I didn't mind but now I'm just grttingg a bit sick of it every time I mention it he says I'm just trying to stop him having friends! I'm not! I'm just feeling lonely, then these past few weekend he's had his mates round our house till daft o clock ! Tonight he's gone out yet again!! And is bringing all the lads round to watch the mgregor fight at 5 AM !!!! I am just getting tired of it all now! I obviously love how close he is with his friends but I am feeling so lonely as I don't have that many friends and my closest has a baby so hard to see her! Am I being selfish or just going crazy?
Leigh Messenger·
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Definitely not selfish hun!! I wouldn't put up with it xx
holly·
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I just don't know what to do anymore @leighamy123 ! Everytime I break down to him he says he understands bla bla bla and then it all happens again a week later! Xx
Leigh Messenger·
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Then he definitely doesn't understand @hollymariedevoy xxx
holly·
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I just can't cope, but feel like I can't cry or anything anymore coz I'm just causing too much stress on the twins xx
felicjuh·
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tbh you said he goes out and that upsets you.. he decides to bring them back (so he is not out) it upsets you. he works all week he needs some relaxation and when the baby is here there is no time for him to go and see his mates. don't get me wrong I'm counting down the hours till my oh comes back from work (and sometimes I love it when he is working) and hormones might make you feel more upset about it than normal aswell. maybe sit him down and say maybe we can have a night a week that it is juts us 2 as I feel alone a lot at the moment. hope it works xx
holly·
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I understand all that and I tried that! I said this week I wanted tonight to be our night and look what's happend? @felicjuh xx
Aprajita·
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@hollymariedevoy, I do understand how does it work when OH nods their head by saying oh yeah they understand how it feels la la la and wont do it again and it does happen in my case not next week may be very next day. Its so annoying and heart breaking sometime. But thats what it is!.. Men will never understand women does not even matter how hard they try! So I have stopped arguing with him on those things which upsets me the most, rather concentrating more on my baby, shopping and chores I like to do even when he is around 😒😞 😊Though, I feel strong urge to strangle him sometimes and blame to bloody harmones😂. So keep ur chin up X