... my big pet peeve with my two oldest kids is them standing there staring with something in their…

... my big pet peeve with my two oldest kids is them standing there staring with something in their hand that i obviously need to open. and not asking me to open it..... just waiting for me to take it and open it. I needles to say started to ignore them until they asked for me to open it or help them with they needed help with. they turn five this year. they can use their words.....