I'm an emotional wreck... I was at my ob yesterday with my husband talking about the baby showers…

I'm an emotional wreck... I was at my ob yesterday with my husband talking about the baby showers and he replied "I'm not going to those, they're for girls." I just busted out crying and he was looking at me like wtf lol. what I had done is planned a coed baby shower with family and friends grilling out and I was going to surprise him with his best friend he hasn't seen in years. He didn't know all that but I did so I got so upset when he said he didn't want to go lol then my ob comes in asking why i'm crying lol 😂