Mine is also National Guard. I hate it when he's gone to drill or has long AT's but it's his job so I suck it up.
There are a lot of different jobs in the military so it's all about getting used to your husbands schedule, being patient, and understanding things won't always fall on your time. My husbands job is in intelligence and it's long hours but we have weekends together. It's different for everyone.
Trust me it's hard.... I miss my husband more and more everyday he's not here!!!!!
Mine is army. He's actually deployed right now and will miss the birth of our baby 😭