as done as I am with being pregnant, I am SO not ready to have her. I'm so nervous about giving…

Hun. Nothing can prepare you to welcome a new life into this world. But trust me, the very moment you lay your eyes on you little one... It all changes! Take it from me! I didnt even know i was pregnant til i was in labor with my son! I had nothing for the first month of his life! It is the best feeling in this world to finally be able to hold your baby! And once you do, the readiness i think sets in! Enjoy it while your baby is still in your belly! Giving birth is really insane but it is so worth it! Good luck hun and continue to prepare for your little one! ❤️

This is my 4th and I feel the exact same way you do Lol. Trust me it never changes.

You will never feel ready but trust me you are as ready as u can be for motherhood . Is overwhelming but perfect at the same time

@ortegacass661, I only have a few days left. I'm not making it to my due date. I'm really trying to enjoy it, but my mother is trying to make everything about her. I can't stand to be around her right now because all she cares about is how she's feeling and what she's doing. I'm so excited to be having this baby but I've been in such a crappy mood because of her. I try to avoid her as much as I can but I live with her. I can't wait to hold my daughter and I can't wait to see the look on her daddy's face when he sees and holds her for the first time.

@sexxymama83, this is my first. I've been around babies before, with family members having them and babysitting and whatnot, but I'm just so nervous to be having my own. I know I'll be a good mother, I'm not worried about that, but you know what I mean.

Yea I do. I come from a big family so with my first I knew the 'mechanics' of what to do. But it's nothing like having your own....

I think maybe you should talk to her and let her know that she isn't making your life any easier with her being that way. I know it is easier said than done but honestly being pregnant and having someone making your day bad isn't fun or good for you. You dont have anywhere else to go if you dont mind me asking? And yes! That loving look you will get from your baby will make you and her daddy the happiest! You cam talk to me if you ever need any other emotional support. Im always happy to help!

@ortegacass661, we're buying the house from my dad so going somewhere else would be pointless. I've tried to talk to her and her selfishness is so bad she completely ignores what I say and continues talking about herself. she did it yesterday when I told her to stop telling random people about my trips to the hospital (people who aren't related to us and not important to my child's life) and again when I told her that pictures and other information about the birth and baby will be put on facebook or other social media when I choose to put it there. I think she's jealous that my sister and I are getting more attention than she is from everyone. no one has anything in common with her and there are new family members coming this year, so everyone is more focused on us and not caring what she's doing. granted all she's doing is sewing for her new job, but she won't shut up about it. it's like I said in my earlier post, it's all she talks about, that and how "she's gotten 8 hours of sleep in the last 2 days". I told her I don't care, I've gotten 10 hours in the last 4 days. I honestly can't stand to be around her right now. I'm so close to chewing her a new ass hole.

Damn that really sucks. I mean like you said you only have a few more days till you give birth. Maybe just focus on that and preparing for your delivery rather than your mom. It may ne hard but it might make you a little happier. I cant even imagine the stress she causing on you but try not to dwell on it. You would want that stress to cause any complications on your delivery. Prayers hun. Just be patient till you get your house and itll all be over!

@ortegacass661, I'm really trying girl lol and I'll still have to deal with her. we're buying the house we're in lol my dad can't afford it anymore and my mom doesnt help him with bills or mortgage payments, but we can. I'm trying not to stress so much. my sister is helping with that just by being there for me. I just don't want to stress her out because she's pregnant too.

Oh man. I guess just take it day by day. Lol im really sorry that you two have to be going through this. I do hope it gets better!

@ortegacass661, Thanks lol I think I piss hubby off sometimes with how much I vent about her. he's been in Indiana working since January so he hasn't been here to see it happening but I tell him and he tells me to calm down lol