As much as I want to have my 1st child , I've sort of stopped dwelling on it and getting my hopes up…

As much as I want to have my 1st child , I've sort of stopped dwelling on it and getting my hopes up every time . I'm 22 years old , I went to my gynecologist the other day for my 1st papsmear and he said everything is healthy , that its only a matter of time before I am pregnant . He gives me about a year , I guess it just isn't my time yet , I was so worried that something was wrong with Me and that's why I didn't have a kid yet .I've been trying for almost a year , and just recently stopped smoking cigarettes like 2 months ago , thank God it been 6 years . well now maybe its just a matter of time , patience is key .