a mutual friend of my fiances and mine told us our baby cant come home in a convertible carseat.…

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call your DMV or hospital they can tell you for sure. But that doesn't sound right... if your infant can sit in it normally they can go home in it.

@abeals04, thank you! now I can just a convertible seat instead of a carrier.

That doesn't sound right to me. Convertible car seats that can rear face and have a minimum weight of 5 pounds should be fine.

I've heard that too with some places

well if they dont like it they can kiss my butt lll