I've dealt with this but I tell people how it is. I'm not rude just honest. I just cut those people out of my life, one person can only take so much negativity all of the time.
ya u right , I try my best to be nice tho , but after a while it just gets old hearing the same negative shit from some one who just complains but doesn't want to change even when u give them advice lol
If they're true friends they will appreciate the honesty, I find that most people don't. My friends and I tell each other like it is, in all reality how can you be mad at the truth? But a lot of people take things personally and want people to feel sorry for them. I don't. We all have problems, I can try to help someone but so much. People need to help themselves.
I'm a therapist. I deal with this every single day of my life lol minus Saturday and Sunday. You just have to support them and they'll make the change when they're ready.
I can agree , and @godsjoi listening to different people's problems every day esp the stubborn ones lol I don't know how u deal with it , but u are strong !
well i love helping people too it makes me feel good inside , just not when some one doesn't listen , u can lead a horse to the water but that doesn't Mean that they will drink.
missing273user·
I've dealt with this but I tell people how it is. I'm not rude just honest. I just cut those people out of my life, one person can only take so much negativity all of the time.
Kimberly·
ya u right , I try my best to be nice tho , but after a while it just gets old hearing the same negative shit from some one who just complains but doesn't want to change even when u give them advice lol
missing273user·
If they're true friends they will appreciate the honesty, I find that most people don't. My friends and I tell each other like it is, in all reality how can you be mad at the truth? But a lot of people take things personally and want people to feel sorry for them. I don't. We all have problems, I can try to help someone but so much. People need to help themselves.
Kimberly·
yup u are definitely right
Joie·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (12 нед.)
I'm a therapist. I deal with this every single day of my life lol minus Saturday and Sunday. You just have to support them and they'll make the change when they're ready.
Kimberly·
I can agree , and @godsjoi listening to different people's problems every day esp the stubborn ones lol I don't know how u deal with it , but u are strong !
Joie·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (12 нед.)
Hahaha. People are my passion, but it does take a toll sometimes lol!
Kimberly·
well i love helping people too it makes me feel good inside , just not when some one doesn't listen , u can lead a horse to the water but that doesn't Mean that they will drink.