I swear I love my husband...but sometimes the things he says infuriates me..like today he was gone…

I swear I love my husband...but sometimes the things he says infuriates me..like today he was gone all day with a friend...and I asked why he told me he would spend time with me when he actually did...he said well I wanted a break...and I'm like from what? and he goes from you asking me to change diapers...and no I go well that's part of being a parent..and he goes well my dad didn't have to change any diapers...and I'm like uhhh I'm not your mother and parenting is 50/50 not 90/10