My SO is so annoying 😳😩 He tells me to stop giving my baby my boob so much, because he can't handle…
My SO is so annoying 😳😩 He tells me to stop giving my baby my boob so much, because he can't handle 3-4 hours with her without her wanting my boob. Well, no shit. I'm with her 24/7, when she wants Mama, she is going to LOOK for my boob. He clearly doesn't realize pumping and feeding her through a bottle is MORE unnecessary work for me. I am not gonna deprive her of my boob just because its easier for you. 😤😒 When its time for me to wean her off breastfeeding, I will obviously pump and bottle feed her more but for now, I am a stay at home mom.. I don't understand why he can't understand direct breastfeeding is what's best for her.
Ashley·
I get it. they get jealous at times and it's so hard for papa's when we're not around. maybe try having him feed her a bottle once a day or something because there might be a time when you aren't around and he's gonna have a much harder time to get her to eat. dealing with this right now. he's so spoiled on the boob and df is at work a lot so I don't feed a bottle because it'll make my supply go down if I don't pump when he's at the bottle
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@amaresmama, yeah, I mean when I am not home for a few hours - I make sure I pumped and have bottles ready. but I guess LO still goes crazy looking for my boob and gets extra fussy when I'm not around.. :( it doesn't help that she doesn't take pacis either lmao
Ashley·
same thing with my son! !!and it gets to him so much because he's like I can't just whip out my boob to feed him lol.
Ashley·
he throws a fit honey I'm talking crying til he makes himself sick
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@amaresmama, oh man :( yeah, I'm sure its also harder for our SO because they dont see the LO fussy like that a lot. me on the other hand, I'm with her 24-7 so I've seen it ALL! 😑😂 BUT thank you for your reply. it makes me be more emphatetic to my hubby
Ashley·
yup so true. .they don't know what to do 😔
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@amaresmama, yes. our babies are around the same age too(: 2 months. so it IS hard as heck right now haha.
Romana ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@amaresmama, so rewarding that my baby knows I'm her mommy now. she smiles at me all the time 😁😁😁
Ashley·
Aww that's so sweet! motherhood is so rewarding I love it