question for my married people.. so an ex inboxes you.. do you reply and tell them you are married ?…

Just reply, see what he wants. Don't just straight shoot at him that you are married. But if he wants to see you or something then tell him your married and expecting

I personally wouldn't reply. An ex is an ex for a reason so I wouldn't bother. I wouldn't appreciate if my husband decided to reply to an ex girlfriend.

@raegenice, exactly how i see he talking bout some hey how you doing i was gonna b like im doing married shit lmaoo

@breezywap, lmao petty 😂 I probably would reply the same if I cared to. But nope they usually wanna butt in when you're happy. I'll leave the past where it is and take zero steps back, not even a friendship is granted.

yessss i just didnt want to upset hubby nd your right i gotta look at it as if he was in the same position grrr i just got mad a lil bit lol @raegenice

@breezywap, lol I would look at my husband like he's stupid if he replied to an ex. Not because I don't trust him but because what's the point? There's no friendship there. Not saying exes can't be friends...but trying to slide in my man's messages when we've been married for over a year? Oh no.

yeah if hubby would get in trouble for it don't even bother...not worth it. plus an ex is part of a past chapter I like to speed read but I'm not going back to reread a chapter when I have new chapters to write.

Yeah I wouldn't reply. What could you possibly have to say to me or ask me?

exactly he gets no response @mommy2two1316

Depends on which one it is & what it says. One that we left on a good note & the message seems fine I would reply to see what he needed but one that was crazy & said I couldn't date no one else I would block his ass & not reply.

Likely they know you are married already. If not, you can tell them. But I would also alert my husband (but tell him it was handled) because I share everything with him. @breezywap

no response they don't need to know anything abd the past its the past don't waste time talking to them.

even if you left on a good note, why do you have to talk?

I handle it like this: I respond with hi or hey, they usually say what's up and then I say " oh just hanging out with my bf Alex". if they just wanna talk they continue. if they want something else they say oh, or something small and then not reply

@madibrice, exactly

No response! A response only sparks a conversation

My fiancé will kill me if I talked to my ex.