Update my boyfriend said his mom isn't getting out until May I'm due the beginning of June and…

nope. baby comes first

I'd do it, you need to get ready!

@gypsy.soul2, @jessicahartze exactly and my boyfriend like you can do it after May... but I will be 9 months pregnant by then and will feel so rushed! And I just feel like nobody cares about what I need to do.

you're not going to want to do a whole lot all the time. especially setting things up that's a lot of work, decorating is one thing.

@jessicahartze, boyfriends like he can do everything, but honestly I wanna do it I wanna decorate and everything this is my first baby and I'm so excited... and I can't even enjoy my excitement because I'm not able to start on her room.

I get where your coming from but that's his mom don't make it hard on him

@luvmyboldens, yes I know but she doesn't respect our apartment, yells every time shes here for no reason, has her bf here too. She has the time to look for a place of her own but had made no effort to, she pulls her own little sons hair because she likes the way babies make their face when they cry... and this is why I'm going crazy. Because I hope she doesn't think she's gonna pull my daughters hair to make her cry for the fun of it.

I would tell him not any longer then may that you respect its his mother n you don't want to make things hard for him but he needs to grow a set and make sure everything is done for the baby n she Is gone ... and the hair thing is wild I would beat her ass if she pulled my babies hair

@luvmyboldens, I do have respect for her cause it is his mom, but she has told us plenty of times she was moving but we have seen no effort being made just them bringing more of their stuff in our apartment. and I've told him, he said he will tell them we will see though. an i know right, I totally will like she laughs when she does it to her son and I'm sitting here looking at her all crazy like I hope she doesn't try an do that to my daughter.

@luvmyboldens, plus we live in a government based apartment with only our names on the lease, if we were to get caught with extra ppl we would be out of here in a heartbeat with nowhere to go and not able to get back into another one either. It would be on me an him, not her and that's what they don't realize either.

yeah I live the same kind of place I had that same issue with my cousin staying here

yeah I honestly would ask him if he can get her out a little sooner