I've been gone for over a week and just now got home. I have yet to clean my room where the baby gonna sleep and do…

I've been gone for over a week and just now got home. I have yet to clean my room where the baby gonna sleep and do laundry and have everything ready and my c section tomorrow. apparently I'm being selfish because I said I wasn't gonna spend the night at his mom's again because I have no clean clothes I don't wanna bring my daughter back out when it's close to bedtime and she'll sleep in the car and be up all night plus she's got her own bed here vs a pack and play and I still gotta clean my room and mop. I've put this off for a week to help him go to work and even canceled plans to be home yesterday to help him but the one night I say no I'm selfish and they all have a solution to everything. stop finding a solution maybe I just wanna be home before being stuck in a hospital for almost a week.