anyone else having trouble with there mom or mother in law trying to be all up in your bussiness? I…
anyone else having trouble with there mom or mother in law trying to be all up in your bussiness? I know they are excited for there first grandson. but they both think they will be in the room an i said no to both. my mom keeps trying to tell me what I can an can not do. like what outfits I can buy how can I do the nursey an stuff like that. I want to be involved in my babyshower an she gets mad at me for that. she thinks she is having the baby pretty much an its driving me crazy. I'm to the point to where I dont want anyone at the hospital just me an my boyfriend. but I know if I do that then I will get bitched at.. I have like no say in anything😐
Lauren🖤·
My moms alright but my mother in law has been crossing lines throughout my pregnancy! She tried telling me what I could and couldn't name her and I finally told her I didn't care what she said I would name my daughter what ever I wanted! She hasn't asked to be in the room when I give birth but my husband and I have decided we aren't going to tell his family I'm in labor until she's already here so they can't try to be there because it'll just stress me out.
mercades paugh·
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i dont want either sides there until afterwards. An my boyfriend understands that I don't want his mom in there an its really do far just been my mom who keeps over steping more but my mil has been to. I don't know what to do. @lauren125
Lauren🖤·
I would just not tell them your in labor until after he/she comes. Then have your husband call and tell them they can come up to visit when you're ready.
Lauren🖤·
*boyfriend. Sorry my brain is not working today lol
mercades paugh·
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Lol it's okay he pretty much is just my husband haha an im really thinking about doing that
mercades paugh·
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@lauren125,
Amanda·
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I feel you on this .. my mother is trying to tell me to be surprised about the gender then I got his mother telling something different it's exhausting I know it's painful
Lauren🖤·
That's what I'm doing with my in laws. I want my husband mom dad and sister there but that's already a lot. So I'm just gonna let the rest come see me after she arrives(:
mercades paugh·
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I hate it. me an my boyfriend was the only ones who knew what we were having an my mom got mad for not inviting her to the ultrasound @mandycakes86
mercades paugh·
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I think I'm just going to have me an my boyfriend there until after he is born an we get settled back down then everyone can come up there@lauren125
Lauren🖤·
I agree with that. It should be a special time for you and your boyfriend.
Amanda·
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yes I know both mothers want to name the baby n trying to keep us away from each other