SO barely showed up and he's drunk... i feel i am stressing my little girl out she is moving like crazy and there is so…
SO barely showed up and he's drunk... i feel i am stressing my little girl out she is moving like crazy and there is so much pressure i feeli am going to pee myself. ugh pls don't let this be the night. oh and I drug myself to sleep on the damn couch so disgusted w him right now
Ashlynn·
Мама сына-младенца
Oh girl tell me about it. My SO was drunk 90% of my pregnancy.. & came home drunk once since my sons been born (he'll be 6 weeks old on Friday) & I about ripped him a new one. He will definitely not be making that mistake again lol
anissa·
В ожидании первенца
i don't get it ! how can you leave me for half the day not even call or check on me because he's mad about an argument we had yesterday. i am 39 weeks and u show up at almost one am wtf @drewsmommy :(
Ashlynn·
Мама сына-младенца
guys are stupid mamas! The morning my SO came home drunk.. He was gone for 24hrs. Our son was only 3 weeks old.. I was at home taking care of him while he was out getting drunk with his lesbian roommates who hate me & tried to hook him up with one of their friends... & he didn't come home that night cause he wanted to do the "responsible thing" by not driving home. like uh no! The RESPONSIBLE thing would of been not going out in the first place. Oh girl I was LIVID! & ready to walk out the door. I was packed & everything by the time he got home.
anissa·
В ожидании первенца
what happened, what got you to stay? cuz that's where I'm at now.. @drewsmommy
Ashlynn·
Мама сына-младенца
When he got home & saw our shit packed he realized I wasn't fucking around. & I guess reality hit him like a ton of bricks & he broke down.. He said he knew he fucked up, promised it would never happen again & was on his knees begging me not to take our son away from him. & fortunately for him in a very forgiving person... Just seeing him cry in front of me the way he did got me.
anissa·
В ожидании первенца
wow, that's crazy girl. do you have any advice on what i should do from here
Ashlynn·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm not sure how your guys relationship is but I would call him out on his shit. have you ever threatened to leave before? Your precious baby will be here soon.. he needs to step up. cause if he's anything like my SO.. when you bring your baby home & he doesn't help you the way you want him to things will get bad, real fast & it's not fair for you. Sounds like you need to give your SO a reality check that he can't keep taking advantage of the fact that no matter what he does your always gonna be there. Guys think that it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission, that's why they do stupid shit. but it ultimately comes down to what you'll put up with. I hike that helps!