@loveaboveall, Oh nice (: my hubby had 5 deployments but we met after his last one in Afghan. I have mixed feelings about missing the deployments though... happy cuz I know it's tough but heartbreaking because my husband never had anyone waiting for him when he returned. :-/ that's great that he's found a good job tho in San Diego (: I miss Cali but it's too expensive for us.
such a bummer for us mommies who want a water birth so bad! 3 hardly anyone in here post about it! I hope you get the birth you want tho. (: hopefully you can at least find a place that at least will let you labor in the tub. it's funny cuz water births are one of the cheapest ways of delivering