this stress is killer. he won't tell me what the plan of action is. one day he says "this is not a…

this stress is killer. he won't tell me what the plan of action is. one day he says "this is not a divorce, It's just me needing some space to think things through" and then the next it's "when you get there I need you to go get a job because I'm not going to pay your bills I'd we aren't together." so confused and so heartbroken😟