@mellie777,

that's what I'm saying!!

yes I think it's absolutely crazy he is choosing to put yall life on hold cuz his X is mad ..he should not worry what she wants or thinks he only has a obligation to his son not her and your his wife what you want should definitely come before what another chick wants !

I know! we've been trying for almost a year and now he doesn't want to anymore until he's older and everything is figured out..... that will be like 3 years........ @mellie777

wow that's not fair to you !