Am I the only one who has their bf/baby daddy mom living with them and just can't stand it?

why is she living with y'all?

I would probably have to get a divorce if my MIL lived with us 😩 I feel for you!

I live with my boyfriends parents and it drives me nuts

@carlitojrmami, she apparently has no where to go, and she's been here through out my whole pregnancy and has yet to make any effort to look for a place! on her days off she does other stuff rather than looking for something, and she's got her bf living here too and they are staying in my daughters room that I just wanna be able to decorate already 😩

My mil lives down the street and it drives me insane I can only imagine living with her I'd have to shoot myself

been there, done that and survived! lol. you couldn't pay me to do that again though....oh hell no. now my SIL is staying with us off and on......not as bad as I thought but I just really like my own space being my own.

I live with my in laws and they drive me insane

@torymarrero, @jessicarose034 @jlspoores @maybaby2016 @nathansmommy2 my boyfriend thinks im the only girl not to like her boyfriends parents, so he says I'm a bitch. but I just want my space, and being pregnant with all these hormones doesn't help it one bit. as long as she's been here through out just about my whole pregnancy she has yet to buy her granddaughter anything, but I see her throwing money at everything else.

Oh goodness, I thought I was the only one!! My MIL lived with my bf and I up until about a month ago! My hormones could NOT take it and everyday I would find myself getting into arguments with my bf bc I was so stress about her living here!! Now that she's moved, I'm in a much happier place and all that stress has gone away! It just takes a lot of patience and strength to be able to deal with that while being pregnant at the same time!

My MIL was opposite she tried to like take over my pregnancy wanted to buy everything with out asking me what I liked which seems selfish but with your first it's an exciting new thing and you want to decide if it's whales or monkeys or whatever you want the theme to be 😂 I finally snapped on her and now she just buys gift cards. Does she work atleast and help contribute to your household?

@shannon_nicole8, omg! that's exactly how I feel, like exactly me and my bf will get into arguments all the time! and I'm very stressed out! I wish she'd leave soon, my bf says she's looking for a place but honestly I have seen no effort made, because on her days off from work she goes and does other things... and I literally have 3 months left and can't put my daughters things in her room because it is occupied. 😩

What do y'all's in laws do to y'all? I'm curious. I've been living with my in laws for 4 months and they don't bother me at all....

@torymarrero, yes she works and she will help pay some bills, but I'm the only one that cleans up and buys the groceries and everyone always eats them up! and every time I clean her and her bf will give their 1 year old chips and it will be all over the floor and they'll just leave it there and go straight to bed. it's never ending, thats what really stresses me out, like its not fair to have to clean up a grown persons messes and to buy all the food and only have it ate all up.

I'm sorry :( have you talked to her about it directly?

@torymarrero, and we are living in a government owned apartment, and they are not on our lease so if we get caught with them here then thats me and my bf out and nowhere to go, so that's another reason I stress. my bf thinks we won't get caught but he doesn't know that.

@preggers711 I left my in laws in Florida a few months back thank god 😂 so nothing now but she was just super controlling of my pregnancy and my plans to breastfeed my son etc. never wants to be around me and him at the same time it's just a lack of respect for how I want to raise my son thing

@torymarrero, I have and she keeps saying 2 weeks they'll be out and 2 weeks pass and still nothing, she's been saying it for about 2 months now.

I will say my boyfriends parents have done a lot for us they gave us a place to bought our crib and most of my son's clothes but they are rude to there son and there are seven people living in a three bedroom house and the kids can never seem to get along there is always fight @harkraderhaley

That sounds like my life exactly! I finally had to tell my bf that he needed to start thinking about his family that he's building. By her living there and taking up room y'all aren't able to focus on your new family. He's going to have to stand up to her in order for it to happen!! I had to tell my bf over and over to say something and finally he grew the balls to do it!

That's kinda crazy :( I would talk to your boyfriend more and tell him all the things that she does to make you dislike her and also maybe tell him you rather it be you and your new baby and him as a family under one roof instead of 3 extra people. Maybe he will understand that you want to continue your life with him as a family, your own family

Oh wow! I guess I've been pretty lucky. They are both extremely supportive and always tell me that it's my body and me and Brandon's baby and they trust we will make the best decisions for him and not listen to anyone....I have a better life here than I did with my mom...and I don't know my real dad. Brandon really does have the best parents and I'm happy he shares them with me😃

me!