seriously thinking about hyphenating my daughters last name. my SO just hasn't shown me that he really really wants to be with me for the long haul in the 3 years we've been together. I don't wanna hurt his or his family's feelings by not giving her his name at all, I just have so many reasons in my head that that's what I should do.
That's your baby. Do what you want. Don't let someone else's feelings get in the way. You! Are the momma!