I think it's funny that he's trying to make me forget about this victoria chick and he knows I'm mad…

I had a similar situation, he would game with this chick and a couple of buddy's, I didn't like how his voice would change when she was on, like tryna be all cute. So I asked him to stop, that didn't happen. So being the awesome wife that I am gave him a taste of his own medicine. I made me a game tag, started playing and a bunch of guys would play with me, they were my "friends" he didn't like it for shit, so he stopped playing with her. I ended up becoming really good so I continued to play and that brought up closer, weirdly. Lol. Point being, give him a taste of his own medicine.

@bakingbabylovett, I've tried. and he mentioned that. he said I set a double standard for him because I "make friends" with guys in the game but got mad at him for making friends with chicks. the only guys I'm even close to being "friends" with on the game are the guys in our guild that I speak to when I'm playing, which is like 5 days a month, if that. and I don't play with them for hours, I do my own thing. I only talk to them because they're guildies. I'm not setting a double standard, I'm setting the same boundary that he has. the difference is, he's not respecting it

she's probably ugly anyways girl. try not to let it get you down.

@simone.nicole87, probably but still. I could be standing right next to him and chicks will flirt with him. I've been on the phone with him when some skanks asked for his phone number. i don't trust girls around my man because I see and hear the way they act toward him. and him being raised to be polite to women, these stupid little hoes think he's flirting with them. he could even be sitting somewhere, minding his business in a shitty mood and some girl will flirt with him. it pisses me off. and I have my reasons for not trusting other girls to talk to or be around him. shit happened already thay I'd like to shove someone's head through a brick wall for.

yeah i get it. i guess i was just trying to make it seem better...lol when in reality im exactly like you and girls are the fucking worst man. same with my SO because he's nice & polite they automatically think it means he wants to fuck them and my SO has a real problem with telling pretty girls no..i always say you need to grow a pair of balls. i might be a jealous raging bitch but thats only because i know exactly how girls can be & most guys dont think the girl has bad intentions...that they really are just "friends" i call bullshit on that every time!!!. i swear they only want the dudes who are taken too. its like some fucked up challenge they think is fun!! anyways @arijane316 i hope things get better. im always here if ya need to vent. keep your head up mama

@simone.nicole87, I can't stand girls lol and it's more irritating to think about how he was before we got serious. he was all about sleeping with any female friend of his ex wife be a use she cheated him with his friends while he was overseas. so his revenge was sleeping with all of her friends. so he was kind of a "I'm gonna fuck whoever I want" guy when we met. I don't think he would cheat on me, but thinking of the kind of guy he was and the fact that I've been cheated on by everyone I've dated, makes it hard to fully trust him. especially when he does shit like this