I've been so excited about the baby shower even though it's a month away and now I feel crushed…

I've been so excited about the baby shower even though it's a month away and now I feel crushed because everyone is saying they already have plans and stuff. they all want use to work around there schedule which really pisses me off. this one is going to suck just like the one with my first baby when only 4 ppl showed up. this time we live alot closer to family so I just really don't get it.