I made my fiancés mom cry when I told her there were to be no visitors for the entire time we are in…
I made my fiancés mom cry when I told her there were to be no visitors for the entire time we are in the hospital when the baby is born.. visitors ruined bonding time I was trying to have with Kaelin, visitors ruined recovery time at home bc they were there when we pulled up, they ruined what should be a relaxing and peaceful transit from womb to life by taking tons of pics, begging to hold her, and already asking us to go places, there was too much going on around us.. I'm shocked I didn't have PPD.
luckily, I understand you can never love a child too much but boundaries will always be bold when it comes to respecting my wishes for my children.
I'm also happy my fiancés brother divorced his wife so I don't have to deal with her 😎
kinda wish his bro would give me some nieces and/or nephews though and stop chasing these worthless females 😡😡😡
jana.bear·
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I'm so with you on the no visktors! My mom got really upset too. But the last thing inwanna do after a major medical transition with a new baby is try to entertain people.
karina pavlides·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (24 нед.)
I wish I had the balls to say that to my family. I've already been informed dad will be flying from Texas to see when baby girl is born and obvi my husband and I have our families here so they will most likely be there. Therefore the first days of birth will not be 'bonding' time with my child just like my son 😕
Katelyn·
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I'm making everyone wait an hour to come to the hospital and I'm limiting who can visit. Everyone else can come after we've been home a few days. This is my first baby and I'm breastfeeding on top of it. Hubby baby and I need time to adjusy
Crystal·
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I don't want my mil and her family to visit... they stress me out
Isha Lena Broadway·
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Yeah I'm not looking forward to telling my fiance's dad's side of the family that we aren't having visitors until she's 2 weeks old... sorry not sorry.
Anna David·
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I refuse to let my boyfriends sister back after i have Riley. His sister is trashy and nasty and just rude and disrespectful
Haley·
exactly how I feel about when I have my baby girl! because its our time to bond, I don't want me having her then everyone be there and passing her around the room and me not being able to bond with her. so I'm 100% right there with you!
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@jana.bear right there with you girl. I have zero qualms telling people to piss off when it comes to my newborn lol
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@mrspavlides you can tell the nurses you want no one bothering you guys.. they will not let them in until you are ready.
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@lilkountryma I agree girl. breastfeeding is tough and you definitely need that space t transition
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@kasynsmommy2016 tell your hubby he should be on your side
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@littlemissrainesmommy heard that. too many germs and new stuff being around baby can be toxic.. they should respect your wishes
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@rileysmommy2016 right on girl!! you go girl
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@harkraderhaley thank you!!! Kaelin got over stimulated and it was so bad for her... even the hospital said avoid visitors for at least a day for babies health
Anna David·
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@gypsy.soul2, I honestly don't want anyone back there but i dont want to hear about it from his family
jana.bear·
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People don't get that these tiny humans have spent their entire existence wrapped up inside us safe and sound and being born is traumatic enough. Why add to it by letting a bunch of strange people gape at them and man handle them. They recognise daddies voice and smell from us being around them so.much but everybody else might as well be an alien. My mom's lucky I'm letting her wait at the house and watch the baby when I sleep the first week. Nobody else is allowed around for at least the first week.
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@jana.bear I agree 100% Kaelin was way too over stimulated by all the attention and I was not having it again. I barely let anyone hold her and kept her close to my heart.. I did let my fiancés OTHER mom (the one I love) hold her the most bc she had a heart attack trying to come back from Oregon when she heard I was having Kaelin early lol.. and she was totally our baby whisperer hahah.
Crystal·
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@gypsy.soul2, he claims he is but we will see come june. but I don't have a problem telling them. I've already told my dr his mom or nobody will be in the room. I've told him my stress needs to be nonexistent bc if I do that in hospital and my BP stays up we can't leave until it goes down and nobody will be allowed to visit but I will get my bonding time lol