looking for mommys who live in GA and have shared custody of their kids with their father. i have some questions...…

I don't live in GA, or share children but what she's doing is messed up. when you guys go to court and talk to the lawyer say you guys want receipts to make sure the money is going to the child and not paying for rent,bills or the woman's expenses. Child support is called that for a reason, for the child not the mother of your child. also provide your bills, and other expenses to show what you can and cannot provide for child support because you also have a child too. Also talk to your lawyer about how the lady doesn't work. be completely honest and see if you guys can request stuff such as she finds a job, you guys get the daughter more, or whatever else you guys may want.

@kelseys, he hasnt seen his daughter since she was 6months old and she will be 4 in october. anytine shes does contact him shes mean, calls him names, talk down to him and says how i am the problem. which im not! im a teacher im around kids all day long we have child together and were not married yet but he i told him id never do him like that. i work to support Lucas and she doesnt. thank you for the help! i appreciate it A LOT! i just needed to rant without the whole family being in our business!

its okay to rant. but that's crazy, record phone calls and save all the texts, whatever you or your bf do, try to be nice as possible talking to her, not even a swear word, to show the courts that she's the problem, won't let him see his daughter and only wants his money. which by the way you guys obviously have your life's together, working, home, and child(ren) while she does nothing at home. I think the court will side with you guys if you provide proof to your lawyer of everything about and from her

@kelseys, supposedly she is going to school, and living at her parents. we have tons of proof of times when she's been ugly to both me and him. my biggest concern is no child needs over 500$ a month on things plus they want him to pay 50% of her unpaid medical bills... i don't even spend that much on my son a month and he is an infant! my son goes to daycare so that's something we have to pay. i refuse to let this go. it's not fair that my son will now suffer because all the money that was coming in for him is now going to her to do whatever with. and last night when he told her he was contesting it she said go ahead the judge will laugh in your face, and i will be paying rent soon so i now have an extra expense and the judge usually agrees with the mom.

she sounds eligible for public aid(food stamps/medical insurance) which would help her a lot actually. and for you I'm not sure if your eligible but you can go to action for children, not sure if its also in GA, but it helps pay for the majority of daycare. but anyways, why does that child have so many medical bills? my son will be 5, and has only gone to the hospital a hand full of times, and goes to the doctor for yearly check ups, and if he's really sick. my 9m old only goes for check ups, hasn't even been to the hospital. it must be her bills then. and $500 is too much! you don't buy clothes every month, I'm sure she isn't in school or maybe preschool but even then you barely have to buy school supplies, toys aren't an everyday expense. food? I mean what else could she spend that much on, on a 4yr old

@kelseys, she is eligible for EVERYTHING! I alone get wic food stamps and medicaid for Lucas because i make 8.79 an hr working 40 hr weeks. i bust my butt for him! because i have to give him what he deserves! i totalled up a case of diapers, food, clothes and medicial 34,100,60,50 and came up to 244 a month and thats if you spend all that amount. yes shes almost 4 and still in diapers!