I'm trying to find ways to get the men involved at the showers, how would y'all feel about beer…

There's gonna be beer at mine

I'm having beer at mine. lol and for gifts I'm just getting 5/10 dollar gift cards.

I personally think its your baby shower and if you want beer there then have beer there. Its not like the kids will be drinking it and obviously you wouldn't but why should that stop them from drinking? ya know? I was gonna have beer in baby bottles at my baby shower and the men had to drink out of them (nipple and all) but I decided not to because I'm having my babyshower in a hall connected to a church. And for prizes? uhm what about like "sex certificates" to where they give the coupon saying what sexual act they want done and their SO does it? Or like a pair of guy slippers or even beer?

I'm just asking bc I don't want to offend the older people there, that's my reason for asking I've never done anything like this before @rainbowbaby2015

good idea with the beer and slippers my man gets highly uncomfortable bringing up sex so I'm not sure how thd certificates would pan out lol @rainbowbaby2015

I don't think it would offend older people, you could even do the baby bottle thing to make it a game so they don't get offended. Idk my family and Davids family love to drink so they wouldn't care.

@peanut_baby okay lol the men I know won't participate for that but the women sure will good idea

Lol well good luck whatever u decide. @hermommy

I'm also having a pamper raffle. my cousins baby is 6 months and she still hasn't needed to buy any diapers. just FYI @hermommy

good idea:) @peanut_baby

I had a coed shower too. for game prizes I did the best I could to make them gender neutral. look on pintrest. there's some cute ideas for shower games for guys

I'm trying so hard girl but Joseph is being a turd😒 every time I bring It up he says he has to work I'm doing it on a Sunday so no he won't I don't think he is realizing he's hurting my feelings😂😩 @arijane316

my man wasn't here so I didn't even bother getting his advice. my brother in law came to it tho so I asked him what I should do

👏👏 good idea girl @arijane316

He told me to get beer for the guys but only 1 showed up (not including BIL) and my dad doesn't drink. but they still had fun. there was only one game that was specifically for the women.