Ugh just had to tell my older sister I did not want to move in with her and her alcoholic partner…
Ugh just had to tell my older sister I did not want to move in with her and her alcoholic partner for the 5th time. She's offering to pay rent for us and everything for as long as we need. I feel so bad because they both mean well but I just do not want my baby around an alcoholic for millions of triggering reasons. I just don't feel comfortable.
danni·
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Have you explained that? nice gesture tho I don't talk to my sister haven't in years!
Cyn·
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@justmarriedhavingaboy, gosh yes I have. She moved to my state to be close to me and I want to move out of state again to get away from them. Their lives are depressing.
danni·
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😕 sad. maybe you can influence her to have a better life! she deserves more than that. I've dealt with alcohol my while life and never ends with a smile...I will pray for her family.
Cyn·
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@justmarriedhavingaboy, please do. It's needed and appreciated. I've been trying for the majority of my adult life to help her but it's just one abusive relationship after the other. I think at this point what's healthier for me is to keep my distance. She will sadly have to learn on her own. I'm getting married and starting my family I don't have the energy to help her anymore.
danni·
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@mamamoonbaby, sometimes you need to walk away. I hope there comes a time she comes and want change but until then you're right. stepping back is probably best right now. just know she probably wants to be closer and jelous. so be proud of you and concentrate on your fam
Cyn·
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@justmarriedhavingaboy, I definitely will be walking away. I wish I had never moved from Cali honestly. Thank you!
danni·
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what part of Cali? I went there a few years ago only for 4 days tho to universal studios I wana go again.
Cyn·
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@justmarriedhavingaboy, we were in Oakland! 😍 I love LA too though. Oh Cali..