Correct me if I'm wrong. I think I have a right to be pissed that my SO is out smoking weed with his…
Correct me if I'm wrong.
I think I have a right to be pissed that my SO is out smoking weed with his friends instead of straightening up his shit before the baby comes. He's already gotten in trouble and had a lot of fines to pay off for it. Then had fines and is still taking alcohol classes and doing community service. When he's out, I try and text him and it'll be sometimes hours before he replies or he'll read my message and not reply. I don't see the point in trying to be with him if he continues to make childish decisions.
Lexii Tanner·
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I don't and won't put up with drugs, so you're being a lot nicer than I would be. I would've already left.
lil_bigmama·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (28 нед.)
He has 2 learn that's the only way it's going 2 work if he doesn't want 2 grow up & change there is nothing u can do about it really
missing82user·
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You're definitely not wrong. That's not something you or your child should have to put up with. He needs to get his priorities in check. I wouldn't have been able to deal with that.
makenzie burns·
Well a month ago I made him move out because of everything that was going on so we don't live together anymore, but ever since he's gone back home it's like he's got back into the shit and I seriously can't take it anymore. He knows that I won't tolerate it around our child and I think I've been doing a pretty damn good job getting him away from the shitty friends and on the right track. It's been almost a year. I just don't understand how you can run back to doing something after getting in trouble so many times for it and he's literally working for basically free because of all these fines. @lexiiroyal @raegenice @lil_bigmama
missing82user·
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@makenzie_burns, his habits aren't yours to deal with especially not right now. If he can't prioritize what's important, take care of himself, and stay out of trouble for his sake and that of his child's he still hasn't allowed himself to grow. You can't raise a man, there's nothing you can do. I wish there was more you could do to get him on that right track again but stressing over someone who doesn't want help won't solve anything. I'm sorry you even have to put up with it. He knows what's right so I pray he'll get it together on his own and soon.
makenzie burns·
I know what you mean. It's just sad to me. @raegenice
missing82user·
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@makenzie_burns, it is, but you've done enough for him 😕
Teeka·
we cant live for other people, a person gone do what they want just focus on u and your baby's health just pray for him but don't lose sleep ur not his mother
Lexii Tanner·
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Seems like he doesn't want to grow up at all. Personally, I'd anonymously tip the police...but that's just me. Maybe he'd learn something this time since circumstances are different. I'd say let him know he couldn't be around once the baby is born if he's doing that stuff, but I'm sure he already knows that.